My ex and I were together for 3 years, have 2 kids together and broke up in December. We were together for 3 and a half years and have 2 kids together. Within a few months he had a new girlfriend. My ex showed no interested in me & told me to leave him alone until I started dating someone. Now he is Facebook stalking me and threaten a friend of mine cause he was talking about him. He broke into my house and stole the laptop he gave me after he found out about my new boyfriend. He never sees our kids & drinks a lot. I could use some advice cause I am confused.
Your ex sounds unbalanced. He wants to have his cake and eat it too. He can move on – but you can’t. It’s time to cut off contact with him. While he has a right to see his children, you need to make those times the only time you talk to him. Defriend him on Facebook and make your setting private so he cannot see your posts. Keep a diary with dates, times and details of everything threatening he does. Start calling the police when he breaks into your apartment or anything else threatening. It sounds as if he’s escalating and combined with alcohol – he’s a ticking time bomb. You need to keep your distance.
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