What does it mean if a female friend tells you she dreamed about you in a text conversation you initiated about a different topic? She said: I had a strange dream about you last night. You crept into my room and hid there. We then had a big chat about cultural things. It was very lovely. She has also told me in a different conversation that she’s happy being single. I haven’t told her I like her.
It could mean 1 of 2 things:
1. She’s interested in you and dropping hints.
2. She had a lovely conversation with you in a dream and likes you as a friend.
If this is the only “hint” she’s ever dropped, then it’s probably #2.
In regards to her claim that she’s happy being single, that could be taken a couple of ways as well. She could be happy being single or she could be pretending to be happily single because she doesn’t want to admit she’s lonely or she could have told you that because she doesn’t want you to ask her out. Unless you find a mind reader, there is no way to know unless…
You ask her out. First step – stop texting and start calling. Text messages have ruined dating. They’ve created a generation of passive men who ask girls out in texts instead of maning up and calling. If you want to take your friendship to the next level, start having real conversations and hang out in person. The more time you spend together, the easier it will be to figure out if she’s into you. (It’s also a great opportunity for her to get to know you better and perhaps fall for you).
If there is one thing I learned from years of dating, it’s don’t waste time figuring out if someone likes you. Bite the bullet and ask them out. There will be many women in your life. It’s time to figure out what’s going on with this one so you can either move forward with her or move on to someone better.
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