When a date goes bad, it’s natural to try to figure out what went wrong and why they don’t like you. This question comes from a reader on the defensive trying to figure out what’s wrong with a girl…
Dear Annabelle,
What is wrong with this girl? I think she hates me for my success and good looks. I’d been with this girl for a few weeks and she asked me visit, so I drove 6 hours to see her. When I got there she was surprised by my good looks and didn’t even give me a hug. She was cold and distance for the rest of the day trying to find flaws (by the way she’s 29). The date went down the pipes and I left and haven’t called her. She called me last week to say something about her car. I think I did the right thing in running away. I think that her clock is ticking and she’s trying to get somebody. I am very scared. Do you agree?
All Over the Place
Dear AOtP,
First of all, a woman won’t hate you because of your success and good looks. You seem to be on the defensive which is why you decided to mention that “she’s 29″ which you consider a flaw. My answer is a simple one. You made the right decision in not calling her because she’s just not that into you. If a man drives 6 hours to see someone and the date doesn’t go well, it’s because of a lack of interest and has nothing to do with ticking clocks, good looks or your success. It simply has to do with the fact that the two of you didn’t hit it off. So call it a day, don’t give her another thought and get back out there. There are plenty of single women who live closer than 6 hours away and if you’re as good looking and successful as you say you are, you won’t have any trouble finding one.
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