Have you ever wondered why he keeps flirting but isn’t asking you out? Is he interested or does he just like to flirt? A reader wants to know why her co working won’t pull the trigger and ask her out already!
Why Won’t He Ask Me Out?
Dear Annabelle,
I have a huge crush on one of my coworkers. He’s always flirting with me and singles me out to talk to me but he won’t ask me out! He doesn’t have a girlfriend and I know he’s interested. Do you think he’s worried about sexual harrasment or something? Our company doesn’t have a policy about dating coworkers. Should I just bite the bullet and ask him out?
No, no and no. This situation has no written all over it. I’m sure your instincts are correct and he does have a crush on you but his not asking you out is a clear indication that he’s not as interested as you think he is.
The bottom line is that if he wanted to date you, he would ask you out. Men hunt and if he was truly interested he’d be hunting you, not flirting with you. At the very least, he’d be subtly trying to figure out if you’d date him by dropping hints about hanging out.
In the world of dating, let the men ask you out. I know this might be a let down but think of it this way: you have a fun work buddy to flirt with every day. Be happy he’s not a dick.
Want even more info about men’s strange behavior?: Why Isn’t He Asking Me Out? Decoding Men’s Behavior
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