A reader of Dear Annabelle recently asked Watson if all men were dogs because of two failed relationships. He advised her to get out there and start dating again. The problem is that Players are often disguised as a good guy. Want to know how to spot the player from the good guy? I’m gonna let Watson tell you all about it… —> Watson
How To Spot a Player:
He’s Exudes Confidence:
Players get a lot of ass and it’s always been easy. A man becomes a player by happenstance. A dude doesn’t wake up one day and say, I’m going to be a player and it magically happens. A player is that way because he’s always had an easy time gettin’ the p*%$y. Girls throw themselves at him and he knows that if you won’t bite, there’s another girl on the horizon.
He Touches You A Lot:
Players know that physical intimacy makes a woman feel comfortable. He’s going to touch your arm, brush your hand and put his hand on your lower back. He’s gonna invade your personal space. It’s all part of his strategy to get into your pants. A nice guy wouldn’t touch you as much in the beginning because 1. he’s nervous and 2. he doesn’t want to look like a skeeze.
Players don’t worry about that because they don’t care about you. Who cares what you think.
His Eyes Wander:
A player knows that he needs to give you his full attention to get in there but at the same time he’s keeping his options open. If you turn him down, he doesn’t want to call the evening a loss so he’s gonna be checking out the other merchandise. It’s also possible he might find someone he’s more interested in and leave you to talk to them. He also realizes that if he does that it will probably piss you off and make you an easier target. Girls are always easier when there’s competition around.
His Phone is Blowing Up:
Players are always working on something. If his pocket is constantly vibrating, beware.
He’s Shady:
Are his answer elusive? Does he avoid giving you a straight answer and turns the conversation back to you. Players don’t want you to know anything about them. You might figure out where he lives and start stalking him. It’s also possible he has a girlfriend and is trying to cover it up. Players are liars with one goal – to get in your pants. If his story isn’t jiving, there’s a reason.
You Still Want To Bang Him:
If after seeing him do all of the above things you still want to go home with him; he’s a player. There is something about players that makes women drop their pants. It’s that piece of magic that made them a player to begin with. If you’re the type of girl who doesn’t do one night stands and suddenly you want to – you’re talking to a player. Feel free to go home with him but don’t expect him to call. Unless it’s for more sex.
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